The luxury erotic massage lifestyle can be very tempting, but as with any business, it’s best to enter with caution and planning. The first tip is to learn a little more about the industry. Read articles and blogs, meet and talk to other erotic massage therapists, and see what the business is all about. After doing this, ask yourself some important questions:
Are you ready to commit to this activity? To answer this question, you need to understand what it means to be an erotic massage. You will be paid to be a partner. It is not just a physical relationship but also a psychological/emotional one. Are you ready to be someone’s pimp for a few hours a day? The work can be exhausting, but the pay is worth it, and if you are a people person, you also get a lot of personal fulfillment from making others happy.
Who knows? This is a big problem: who will you tell about your new job? Although you keep your work a secret Although it is tempting, it is not an easy task to achieve. What do you say to your parents, boyfriend/husband, or children? How will they react? Try to anticipate their reactions and test the water in one way or another, but know in advance that secrecy and truth are difficult things in the erotic massage business. Be prepared for their reactions.
Why do I want to get an erotic massage? There is no “good” reason to enter this profession. Every erotic massage has its reasons, but it’s best to know in advance what yours is. Don’t beat around the bush. Are you doing it because you feel sexy or because you enjoy the physical aspect of the job? Are you doing it for the money? Are you doing it to be your boss and choose your hours? Whatever the reasons, understand that they can change over time, and always try to consider your motivations, old and new.
After considering all the psychological and emotional preparatory questions, it is time to consider your well-being. In all your choices in this area, try to stay safe. Safety is a priority. Stay healthy, tell someone your location when meeting with a client, and know that saying “no” is completely understandable when you feel uncomfortable and should be respected. Once you feel confident and relaxed, you can also please your customers.
Behind replying to these inquiries, you will be watchful for some fieldwork. Our next article will discuss the pros and cons of being a freelance erotic massage therapist versus working for an agency and what each entails. Stay tuned!
